If you don’t have a date for Valentine’s Day, there’s no need to make yourself miserable over it.
Unfortunately, we’ve fallen into the trap of letting advertisers run our lives. As Valentine’s Day approaches, we’re bombarded with commercials, ads, and store displays that imply you’re normal only if you’re in a romantic relationship with someone.
The facts prove differently. Nearly 29 million Americans live alone, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. That represents about 26 percent of the population. And close to 96 million Americans, or 43 percent of those age 15 and over, are single.
Let’s face it. There are billions of dollars to be made selling greeting cards, jewelry, candy, flowers, and other Valentine’s Day gifts. But single people need to get over the guilt that there’s something wrong with them if they don’t have a special someone on Valentine’s Day.
The single life is difficult enough, without artificial pressures. Holding down a job, running a household, saving for retirement, and other duties can be very stressful when you don’t have help. Instead of beating yourself up because you’ll be spending Valentine’s Day alone, congratulate yourself for meeting all the challenges that single life throws at you.